Why do people around me tend to increase their responsibility load (i.e. have children, become a manager, do charity, etc.) while I (30M) try to avoid it as much as I can?

humbletightband@lemmy.dbzer0.com · edit-2 9 months ago

Why do people around me tend to increase their responsibility load (i.e. have children, become a manager, do charity, etc.) while I (30M) try to avoid it as much as I can?

KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com · 9 months ago

i consider to some degree, actively avoiding responsibility as a form of responsibility.

For instance, if you know that you can’t be a good parent, then don’t. Some people just have different priorities, and if yours are simply enjoying life, then fuck it.