and, don’t you notice something rubbing against it when you move?

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    8 months ago

    Eh, it’s not “terrifying” it’s just a kink thing and it tends to get a lot of unwarranted negativity (imo because of insecure people). It’s definitely not for everyone but, as with nearly all things sexual, it’s never a bad idea to investigate things just to see if you’re into it.

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      8 months ago

      I’m sure some people find it disturbing or terrifying. Certainly not all. As for whether people are into it or not, it’s their life and I’m not going to tell them what to do.

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      I’m secure about my sexuality and I still don’t like cages - but more because if I’m with a cute submissive guy I really really want to play with his cock y’know, and if he’s not going to let me that’s a bit of a deal breaker