• 0 Posts
  • 12 Comments
Joined 1 year ago
cake
Cake day: June 16th, 2023

help-circle






  • Don’t.

    Okay, that could easily be misinterpreted. What I mean is don’t look for one. Live your life. Get to know yourself. Find some hobbies, start some projects, do some cool shit. Not as a resume for a relationship, just to do it and be fulfilled. You don’t need to find someone right this moment.

    The worst relationship I ever had was because I was young and lonely and bored and I ended up dating someone who nearly destroyed my life and dominated everything about it. Took 5 years to get away from it. Subsequent relationships suffered, though not because my partners were awful, I just wasn’t worth dating.

    At some point, I just got tired of it and “retired” from dating. I took care of myself, did things that interested me, and relaxed for a few years. Just me. I got really happy just being with myself. Then, my best friend of nearly 20 years and I ended up starting a thing nearly on accident, and now (a few years later) we’re very happily married. Absolutely would not have been possible unless I’d spent the time to figure myself out.


  • I mean, lack of consensus notwithstanding, the logic tree should be pretty simple;

    • Employer demands secure device

      • Employee has one personally and is willing to use it for work

        • Employer allows use of personal device

          • Problem solved
        • Employer isn’t comfortable with BYOD, provides a device

          • Employee accepts the new device

            • Problem solved
          • Employee doesn’t accept the device, can’t do their job, is fired

            • Problem solved
      • Employee either doesn’t have one, or refuses to use their own

        • Employer provides one

          • Problem solved
        • Employer refuses to provide one

          • Employee realizes the company sucks, quits

            • Problem solved
          • Employer gets shitty about it, fires the employee, employee sues and easily wins

            • Problem solved
    • updated for more scenarios