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Cake day: June 17th, 2023

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  • I used to attend church with a small following (50-60 members). The pastor seemed very kind at the time and still does some charitable things… But when my grandfather was dying in the hospital, he suggested that suffering brings you closer to God and any kind of hospice or pain-relief was a sin.

    The next Sunday I attended, the pastor starting mocking the medical staff during a sermon, basically airing my family business and likened my family to Judas. I walked out and never came back.

    Some of my family still attends his church. I saw the pastor a few years ago and extended my hand for a handshake and he walked away.

    My mom and I talk about this whole situation sometimes (she attends a different church). “If you hear something at church you don’t agree with, don’t bring it home with you.” That was her way of saying that the pastor is just a person, too. Take what you can from a lesson and apply it for good in your life.


  • When I went on the first few dates with my now-wife, I did not flirt with her as in try to tease her or do anything overtly sexual.

    I honestly think I won her over because how enthusiastic I was about telling stories. She said I was so charming because of how passionate and animated I was while telling her about myself that she could see how confident and content I was.

    Prior to meeting her at 35, I had never had a girlfriend and had only ever gone on 2 dates.