This question makes zero sense. Please reword it if you want a specific answer. But no one has the right to dictate what happens between consenting adults within reason. Key words being consenting and within reason. Obviously no maiming or killing, but otherwise it’s no one else’s business.
If your question is why they focus on bedroom in arguments, its because that’s really what the oppositions arguments boil down to. They don’t like the idea of intimacy between same sex and so that’s always at the root of them being against homosexuals.
First, you will need to provide context on why someone would call you a villain. And your question still doesn’t make any sense since none of it seems correlated based on how you have phrased it.