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Cake day: July 5th, 2023

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  • Nothing has worked consistently.

    Does she enjoy it? sometimes but It’s like taking out the trash. 0 sex again would have zero impact. Liquor helps but only drinks at restaurants and only with a meal. So 99% of the time, just too full to make use of it. Suspected the bc but she was off them for a few years, no change. No medication either. Lost weight 0 change. In college, we thought it was Stress levels but it’s lower now with no change.

    Now no cuddles or daily massages would be an issue for her. Withhold for a few days and watch that blow up.

    It’s always been a chasm in the relationship.