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  • baines@lemmy.cafetoPeople Twitter@sh.itjust.worksToxic Masculinity
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    19 days ago

    if that’s what you want to take away from this go for it lol im done with what I wanted to say after this

    the nuance is that even crappy people can have worthwhile observations

    that you can’t seem to get past his conclusions and separate the wheat from the chaff isn’t on me

    that you keep trying to handwave this like women don’t massively have issues with platonic male relationships while we’re in a toxic masculinity post is again lol

    women are choosing the bear but you think somehow it’s all better as friends?

    the are so many examples of women complaining about this issue if you spend any time in female dominated subs



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    you keep trying to frame it like I don’t think he’s controlling or that I support his conclusion

    as to pretty women developing skills all you got to do is read a bit on the internet or hell female biographies for that matter to see how bullshit that is

    just because you develop tools to cope and defend yourself doesn’t mean it doesn’t fuck you up, some do ok but plenty don’t

    so yea it’s gonna be really really really hard for a pretty woman to have honest male friendships, that’s the nuance, not the turd boyfriend you keep trying to focus this on


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    20 days ago

    nothing is nuanced about his behavior, for sure it is shit and controlling

    what’s nuanced is how male relationships behave in modern western cultures(US specifically) and pointing out how a pretty woman is going to have a real hard time finding genuine male friendships

    and snark aside most his friends are probably not interested in fucking him as only about 1/5th are openly gay















  • except a number of those were not from sketchy sources so much as the supply chain is itself sketch

    that includes the do it yourself juice

    so unless you are doing something dry and even then tests on a number of weed products show really bad chemicals in a number of legit dispense products

    so yea unless you are growing the shit yourself the industry is kinda the wild west still atm

    but yea sig makers have been caught a number of times doing this shit too, they are just more regulated atm



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    and four years worth of beans and rice in my spare bedroom

    I feel like if I was dark skinned with dark hair I’d be bleaching my hair blond and using whatever makeup I could to lighten my skin. Any tats would be covered and I be getting my passport if I didnt already have it. Get and keep the card version on you.