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Cake day: July 11th, 2023

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  • Therapy will be useless until you’re out of such a toxic environment. You need safety and security none of which are possible in such an environment. Therapy in a toxic environment is essentially palliative care until someone kills themself or someone else, they are just not sustainable or workable situations

    It isnt really possible to be safe or have a safe space in such a place, but safety is a huge need and drive that must be satisfied


  • You need to get away from them whatever it takes. Can you join the army or do an apprenticeship somewhere? Terrible situation and there’s not gonna be an easy way out but the one thing you cannot do is stat with your parents. Ironically, I have a great Dad and I cannot live with him, it only worsened my depression and felt suffocating until I moved out and lived among 5 random people a distance away

    Does Germany have a safety net or welfare program you can use to help get support and find a job/housing etc?