Coin toss:

1. Heads or tails are 50/50 probability.
2. It is possible that the coin lands on its side.
3. It is implausible that it splits in two.

Nah. We still have the family computer that connects to the internet.

The family is pretty much just me and my dog though.

A civilization on a planet without a moon would probably say the same about earth. I wonder how they would imagine life on our planet to be in comparison to their sad, stable moon-less lives.

Zigbee door/window sensors are like €3 on AliExpress. They are easy to install and work fine imho.

Instructions unclear, dick computer stuck in post.

The first sequel is so so, but the others that are all centered around Burt Gummer are plenty of silly fun too.

Consider other streaming services than Spotify, like Deezer or Tidal or Qobuz, that pays the artist better and don’t do deceiving garbage like this.

Thanks. Yeah, anything relationship oriented tends to become completely and binary moral high ground burn all bridges and salt the earth from people that have no stake in it except to have a short moment of hormones pumping before they scroll to the next bit of entertainment.

Absolutely. That post was not a list of commandments. It was intended as support for OP in this very moment that they are having a crisis.

That’s you reading it that way and others not. Maybe this is your point two playing tricks on you now?

Dude, I don’t know if you are consciously cherry picking to win this argument or if any best interest of OP simply does not exist for you.

Regardless, I have no interest in discussing this further with you as it seems to be a self fulfilling purpose disconnected from the original post. I’m out.

Yeah, the father made a mistake. You’re the one that conflates making a mistake with an oopsie, nobody else has made that equivalence. Mistakes can be big and they can take lots of effort to correct. OP will surely deal with this in their own time and way with all the complex and contradictory and painful thoughts emotions.

But - OP is not an adult when living with their parents. Children or young adults are not adults. They have a dependency on their parents. OP is not responsible for their father. OP should not be required to take responsibility for their father’s mistakes. OP is getting caught in the middle of the worst conflict a child can be caught up in and they did nothing to deserve it.

I think what you are doing is projecting high moral ideals into this that are inconsiderate regarding the consequences when OP is asking for help and advice and support. This is the last thing OP needs right now and it is not helping them in any way. OP is in a moment of crisis.

Discuss morality all you want but this is the wrong context for it.

Yeah, I get you and I agree. I already mentioned in another comment that OP is included in point two and it is ok that they have strong feelings about this. It grinds my gears though when people on social media go full binary in driving other people’s lives into the gutter because they can project themselves as morally superior or whatever other reason. That’s me point two right there.

Right. I’m the dick that says op should not let themselves be caught in the middle of their parents messy divorce in ways that they might regret later in life and you are the one advocating op go no contact despite us not knowing barely anything about what has been going on or why because this is your hill to show off your moral high ground and insert yourself in some drama that you are immune of consequences. Sure, dude. I’m the dick.

I’m not the one that is making claims of perfection on people. You are. It seems to me you are not living up to your own high standards on others though.

But it is ok. Again, see point 2.

So you’re a hypocrite? Is that really that much better?

Exactly. She moved in after. You are absolutely correct. 10/10 reading comprehension.

It would be unusual if she moved in before the ex wife moved out.

Yes. Now your turn, my morally incorruptible dude.

I’m curious to learn what you think about your username in this context? What crime are you partner in and is it only breaking a partnership that is an unforgivable crime?

Point number 2. Read it again.

As of why, we can only speculate. Sometimes a disaster is what is required to get things happening that should have been over a long time ago.

They are living together already, so it was not only to get laid.

1. Your dad cheated on your mum, not on you.

2. Everything involving humans is more complex and complicated than it might seem at first glance.

3. Everybody makes mistakes, even your loved ones.

4. You only have one dad, so it’s better to forgive them. (I didn’t forgive mine for other mistakes, and that was my mistake. Now I’m old and he is dead and that’s that.)

5. Your mum is being selfish and manipulative because she is afraid and hurting. It’s not right what she is doing, but see the points above for her as well.

6. Life is hard and unfair and difficult for everybody. For your dad, for your mum and also for you. It sucks when you’re stuck in the middle of other people’s problems, but remember all of this will pass. And remember to take care of yourself.

Hugs my dude. You’ll get through this and so will they.

Edit: 7. Time. Let things take time. Don’t rush what you feel or what you should feel. Don’t go overthinking everything. Things that are complicated need time to settle.