I used to think that, but now I think we overestimate the generosity of people

Me too, but to Thunder. I find its interface more polished.

I remember I couldn’t even use earphones on the street or on school because I thought people were going to look at me more, even thought everybody uses them

I never left. What I did is I browse and do what I did regularly on Reddit on Lemmy, except when I want to search for a really specific information about a thing, which can’t be done here.

If I want to post something, that’s on Lemmy (even if it doesn’t get any reaction) and also Reddit if I need replies